I had to share this story because it has both humor and joy. When I was to be married at 63 my dearest friend Anita was to be my maid of honor. While trying on our gowns she looked over at me and said you look like a banana in that color and now I want a banana split. I said well you know yellow is my favorite color so I am not changing it. She said ok you wear that and I will wear a multi colored gown and we can have a banana split themed reception. You know we certainly did and for our desserts it was either banana split cake or ice cream. It was a happy day for all too.